We’ve heard the old advice: don’t talk about politics, religion, or sex. Yet online, these are the very things everyone is shouting about. Instead of bringing us closer, the conversations often create more division, shame, or silence. And yet these are some of the most important parts of our lives—politics shape our communities, religion shapes our values and belonging, and even the topics we avoid, like sex and gender, shape our sense of identity and intimacy.
The problem isn’t that we’re talking about these things, but how we’re talking about them. Instead of real listening, the conversations often turn into arguments, echo chambers, or avoidance. What’s missing is a space where we can speak honestly and be met with respect, curiosity, and genuine connection.
This is a different kind of space—one designed for honesty without judgment.
Bring your political views—or the beliefs, questions, and tensions behind them—and share them openly. My role isn’t to debate or convince you, but to listen with presence, curiosity, and care. Even if we don’t agree, you’ll know someone is holding space for your voice and your humanity.
Why me?
I love politics, but I try to avoid the news cycles or the pull of social media. That helps me stay centered—not swayed by headlines or algorithms—and able to listen openly across the spectrum.
I hold doctorates in comparative theology and organizational studies, and I’m currently completing a doctorate in psychology. Together, these give me a wide lens for understanding the human experience: how beliefs and faith shape conviction, how organizations influence us, and how our minds wrestle with fear, belonging, and identity. I’m also trained in Wayfinder coaching methods, which means our work together is practical and compassionate, not just theoretical.
I understand firsthand how conversations about sex, gender, and identity can feel complicated and personal. My role isn’t to force agreement but to hold space where you can be fully heard.
Beyond listening: real-life practice.
If you’re struggling to talk with friends or family you disagree with, we can practice together. I’ll step into the role of “the other side,” asking the kinds of questions you might hear at the dinner table or in a heated moment. You’ll practice responding in ways that stand in your convictions and extend love and understanding.
How it works
- Format: 45–60 minute 1:1 sessions (Zoom or in person in Asheville).
- You set the tone each time: “Just listen,” “Help me dig deeper,” or “Play the other side.” We can switch modes at any time.
- Outcomes: More clarity, calm, and confidence—and skills to talk across differences without losing yourself.
- Cost (limited time): Free. Or, pay what you want.
This isn’t about sides. It’s about connection. It’s about remembering that beneath our politics, our religions, and even our most personal choices, we all long to be seen, understood, and respected.
Whether you lean left, right, or feel politically homeless—you are welcome here.
If you’re feeling unheard in today’s climate, let’s talk.